Method Marketing Newsletter: Issue 34
October 14th, 2002

The Beauty of Relationships

Synopsis:

The world is in a rush. Restaurateurs are mostly 'Type A' personalities who look at every minute of time in terms of ROI. They have no patience. To create and nurture a relationship with a guest and to turn them into 'raving fans' takes time. Herein lies the conundrum and the opportunity to rise into that 'elite' group of operators we all say we want to emulate. These are the men and women who take the time to create lasting relationships with their guests and see their sales and profits go up every year.


"Nobody sees a flower - really - it is so small it takes time - we haven't time - and it takes time, like to have a friend takes time."

Georgia O'Keefe*
*Courtesy of The Artist's Way

"Life's a bitch, then you die"
Anonymous


Your guests define 'value' by the totality of the experience: the service, the décor, the food and its flavors and aromas and the cost: all details that create a memory.

The most memorable experiences come from an organized, well-rehearsed and communicated performance. Great 'word of mouth' is built note by note, scene by scene, act by act, so that by the end of the visit your guest walks away 'wowed'. Or bored. Or, worse of all, disgusted. It's your choice.

These two quotes are sitting together to make a point. We work harder than ever, we fret more than ever, we hunger for that ineffable something we think will bring us happiness and safety. We suspect that "No Pain, No Gain", "No Fun, No How!" are the secret physics principles guiding our world.

The quality of our life depends on the time we take to savor the details, cultivate the friendships, 'smell the roses'. This is not just a 'nice to do' life style statement, but a business proposition. We restaurateurs are in 'the life style business', the 'emotional business' and the "relationship business". Our vehicle happens to be through the service of food and beverage in an appealing environment. Make no mistake, however. While those things occupy our time, it is not what our business is about. Sales are the direct result of hospitality based on relationships. The food quality and basic service are givens. They are the 'price of entry' for today's consumers. However, most operators don't really want to embrace 'relationship building', because it takes time and does not promise the same quick results cutting a tenth of a point of labor does.

I heard a lecture about changes in our culture brought about by the new reality: Post-9/11. Consumers have heightened sensitivity about what is important. They are taking time to assess the things in their lives which bring meaning, comfort and joy. They are demanding more from the products and services they buy. They seek experiences. Our world is not going to return to Pre-9/11 security. If we restaurateurs can embrace that, then we must embrace the new paradigm: Our brands will endure and prosper because of the relationships we forge.

At this lecture, a hierarchy was presented to capture the concept of 'Relationship Branding'. In essence, this concept seeks to transition the guest from simple attraction to our restaurant, based on chemistry and 'buzz', to succeeding levels of connection, bonding and, finally, devotion. Devotion demands trust. Trust is a product of incremental experiences within the continuum of a relationship. It doesn't happen with a silver bullet.

When I stress, "It's Showtime, Baby, and You're the Show!", I am talking about the show business of the heart and soul, a show that generates real feelings from real experiences. Your show is you. Sensory details and generous hospitality beget delight. But, those qualities are made substantial and authentic through the underlying relationship. A theatrical experience is not just a conglomeration of effects, but a synthesis of the seen and unseen, that magic chemistry between actor and audience, text and intellect. Guests know bull, when they see it. They sense when someone is faking it. Perhaps, they may not stop patronizing the purveyor of junk just yet. Nonetheless, the tide of 'relationship marketing' is coming, and that wave will sweep the frauds out of business.

What is the business proposition that supports such 'touchy-feely' stuff? Statistics suggest that someone is more likely to buy and continue to buy based upon a relationship. Saturn created their brand based on it. Nordstrom's built its legend on the extremes it would go to please a customer.

So, how do you develop a business based on relationships? Farm, rather than hunt. According to Michael Katz, President of Blue Penguin Development, farming strategies have been considered optional add-ons in the traditional business model. 'Hunting' has always been the preferred mode of business development. Hunt bear, shoot bear, eat dinner and go out and hunt another bear. This lacks a strategic perspective, don't you think?

What are the farmer/marketer's tools? They include newsletters ("e" or otherwise), loyalty, referral and feedback programs, customer events and other proactive communications to a 'house list'. To that, add the heart-felt commitment to taking time to make a friend.

So get thee 'back to land' and till the soil of guest relationships. Upon harvest-time, you'll eat for a year.

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